We are living in a society where we are expected to be perfect, and yet still have our own flaws.
In this hypocritic world, it is important to know who you are. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t try to be someone else but if your life is filled with all sorts of insecurities and fears, then you need to learn how to deal with them. Most of today’s generation are afraid of being themselves. They don’t want to be judged or criticized for their actions. They don’t want to be seen as weak. They just feel like everyone around them is judging them because they are different from them. This is why I believe that people who are afraid of being themselves should start doing things differently. If you are afraid of being yourself then what you will do? You will never be able to achieve anything in life, and in the run to please everyone you might lose yourself in your own life.
Every one of us should find out what makes you unique and make sure that you feel good in what you really are and not what other people think about you .When we talk about ourselves, we tend to focus on our qualities that make us more acceptable in the society. But there are some qualities that makes us stand out from the crowd and become a unique person. These qualities can be found in our personality. But we are trying to hide those traits from others in the fear that we may get excluded from the peer groups or even from our family members. This is where we need to take a break, look into ourselves and realize what really happens inside us. The moment we show the courage to be yourself and not being worried about what others think of us, we will be able to find out who we truly are. Self-realisation is a necessary aspect, because if you don’t know about yourself then nobody will care about you. It all begins from you because you have been given the opportunity to shine your light on people around you. If you want to become successful in life then start by showing up for yourself. Nothing is more important than self love because it is the only thing that can make you happy. It is also the only thing that can make you feel good about yourself. If you want to become a better person then show up for yourself first. It’s not easy, but it’s worth doing.
In the rush of self-love, there are chances that we may forget about our fellow beings and their feelings. We may end up as a self-centred person who does not care for others, but rather only cares about himself or herself. Stepping into the shoes of others and being able to feel the emotions and struggles through which they are going through is a great thing that everybody can do. It is also important to remember that kindness comes from within us. When you show kindness to others, they will reciprocate your generosity to them. If speaking kindly to a plant can help them grow, just imagine what speaking kindly to a human can do and how it may change their lives. Imagine yourself in a situation where you are going through the darkest phase of your life and you are trying to be fine in front of others hiding the pain and sufferings inside you. If someone comes to you, understand that you are not fine deep inside and tries to make you feel better without expecting anything from you in return, how will you feel? You will definitely feel better, and you will heal faster than you think. This is what every one of us should do to our fellow beings and in order to understand others, you should observe them and try to understand them.
Having a big circle of friends who can’t even spot a small change in your smile is not what you should earn in your life. You should earn valuable relationship in your life by being kind to others. It is not about earning money or getting more likes and social media which lasts for a fraction of seconds, what matters is creating a place in the heart of people around you that can help you grow as a person. If you find that someone is not feeling good then go to him be with him, make some quality time with him. He will always be there for you when you need him. So, it’s all about making your own place in someone’s heart and not about being in the top of chat screen, showering likes to the pictures that they post on social media and just showing up and talking to them. I’m sure you have heard about this before but all I want you to do is that think about this, even once in your life be the reason for someone smile, you will feel the difference and the whole world around you will also change.
Be the one who make a difference in someone’s life by giving them something good or helping someone out. Being kind to yourself and others around you won’t cost you anything, but will give you more than what you can give others. When your actions become the outcome of your feeling from the bottom of your heart everything around you become a miracle.
Make your own miracle and appreciate the world around you…